All of the Ghosts that Live Here With Me, in Our House that was Once a Home…

"I try to clear my space, my mind, my soul, my house, but you linger here like smoke from incense, the scent of you choking me and leaving me paralyzed at times." - Me There is nothing quite like living in the house that used to be a home. Do you know what I mean … Continue reading All of the Ghosts that Live Here With Me, in Our House that was Once a Home…

Show Me Your Deep Darks…Or You Can Show Yourself to the Door.

When you won't address your shame, it consumes everything around you without you knowing it. "To me being in a relationship with someone means I am choosing to be with you with all of your flaws and insecurities. If you are ashamed of something, I want to know. If you are scared of something, I … Continue reading Show Me Your Deep Darks…Or You Can Show Yourself to the Door.

Three months later and my heart still feels so raw and wounded…

"It has been ninety days and nine hundred years since I’ve kissed your mouth or held you and I’ve died a million deaths every day since. The tears flow without reason or trigger; they come because I know you exist, they come because I breathe air we no longer share."Me The wildflowers and cicadas don't … Continue reading Three months later and my heart still feels so raw and wounded…

Feeling Invisible: How My Insecurity Dumpster-Fire with Trusting Men Got Started and What I’ve Learned Along the Way…

Here’s the deal.  Here’s what I’ve come to know; I absolutely, positively, have trust issues BUT I also don’t “just have” trust issues. I have trust issues AND ALSO LIAR issues.  Do you get my gist?  I have issues with people who say they’re going to do one thing and then don’t follow through.  I … Continue reading Feeling Invisible: How My Insecurity Dumpster-Fire with Trusting Men Got Started and What I’ve Learned Along the Way…

Strike that match…and burn away the memories promised that went unmade.

Sometimes the only way out of the dark is to light the bridges we thought we needed on fire. Why go back to where we came from when we can use the light to lead us through to the exciting unknown that lies ahead of us?Me From the first rose to the last note. Two … Continue reading Strike that match…and burn away the memories promised that went unmade.